Mr Paul Nestor
(Elgin)
Paul, passed suddenly at home on Monday 27th of July 2020. Loving Father of Natasha and Jodie. Devoted Brother to Danny & Patrick. Grandad to Ariana. A great uncle to his nieces & nephews, And friend to many others.
Paul was born on the 27th of March 1965 in Glasgow To Mr Dmytro Nestor and Mrs Frances Nestor. His child hood days spent at John Bosco School. After leaving school Paul went into car valeting for work, then onto a postman later on in life.
Paul then went onto marry Maxine Sutherland and started their life together in Elgin, having their 2 daughters Natasha 24, and Jodie 22. Paul was also a great step dad to Robert, who was also a big part in Paul’s life, the kids were the apple to his eye, at the age of 52 Paul became a first time Grandad to a little girl called Ariana who he absolutely adored.
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Billy wrote
10th Aug 2020
Neighbour of Paul's for last five years nd he used to enjoy coming in to watch the fitba and have a beer always spoke and always asked how everyone was. Kind-hearted man who will be missed by many , condolences to all the family . R.I.P. Paul
Graham wrote
10th Aug 2020
To the family. Paul was one of the good guys. Sadly missed. x Graham.
Kym wrote
10th Aug 2020
Paul was such a kind and caring person. Being a neighbour of Paul’s he always took the time to stop and speak - always asking for the dogs and given them things when he saw them. We had some great summer nights with Paul at BBQ’s we held with lots of laughs and great memories. Rest in peace Paul. You will be missed.
Jamie wrote
10th Aug 2020
Paul was a very nice man a true gentleman, always stopped to speak and ask how i was... being pauls neighbour for many years i plenty fond memories, paul will be truly missed. Rest in peace paul!
Neil wrote
9th Aug 2020
Remembering some happy times, when Natasha and Jodie were still wee girls, and Robert a young man. I visited the house often. How you both made your dad so happy. Paul was a man with one of the kindest hearts I ever knew. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss and I'm sorry I cannot come to pay my respects in person. Best wishes to you.
Paul wrote
8th Aug 2020
From childhood too here, we done many miles and places together Nessy and you were always the best company. Always hard to take when one of our own goes to soon. Heartbroken for Robert, Tasha, Jodie and wee Ariana. As they did in life, they are doing you proud now. Until our paths cross on the other side my pal, Shine On You Crazy Diamond. HH Feeney
Zander wrote
7th Aug 2020
RIP paul you were one of a kind and a good friend may you fly high will miss the walks to the shop and all the stories about you growing up in Glasgow it was a pleasure knowing you all the best pal and godbless
Sarah wrote
7th Aug 2020
RIP old friend, I hope you’re at peace Paul, no more demons to fight, God bless you and your family at this time, my thoughts are very much with you all
Denise wrote
7th Aug 2020
Thinking of you all at this sad time on the loss of your dad , and grandad to Ariana. Take it easy Paul 💚 gone but not forgotten . Fly high Paul 💚💚. From Denise and Rohail xxxxx
John wrote
7th Aug 2020
Paul Nestor will always be a man I’ll remember. On the few occasions I was in Paul’s company we had a blast. I always found Paul up for a laugh and a good time which he certainly gave me. Good memories I will never forget. Rest easy Paul John Brownle
Toni -Jo wrote
7th Aug 2020
sleep easy paul.. i hope u get the best bed in heaven 💚 u are 1 of a kind a true legend.. and will e misses by so many 😢 massive hugs to tasha and Ariana and the rest of ur family 💚💕
Callum wrote
7th Aug 2020
Paul you will be sorely missed. It’s still hard to believe we will not see you again. We had many laughs together many times we also cried together we told each other life’s stories and for a small while we supported each other through hard times. We called you the Guru because you were so wise when it came to advice and when I listened to you it helped. You told me how much your family ment to you and I know you love them dearly this is what hurts all I wanted was to see you live your life along side us who loved you. I will always have great memories of us together. Lots of love Gilly x
Robert wrote
7th Aug 2020
Rip paul you weren’t just a father to me you were a best friend youll forever be in my heart fly high your up there with the best now 💚🇮🇪🍀
Maxine wrote
7th Aug 2020
Im lost for words for once in my life,and i can hear you chuckling saying you lost for words well theres a first as you never used to shut up haha,girls are absolutly heartbroken and will miss you so much,and we morag also bless her,but her mummy n daddy wont ever let her forget about you as she loved her ga ga as she used to call you before she clould say granda,all feels surreal,sleep easy paul and ile make sure girls and robert are ok and do my best from here,,,,GBNF 💚
Natasha wrote
7th Aug 2020
Sleep easy dad, I hope you have the best bed up there in heaven, never forget how much you were loved and how much you meant to me & Ariana, she absolutely adored you! You were the best, HH💚
Andy wrote
7th Aug 2020
You're unforgettable Nessie, I will remember the laughs we had growing up always. I am so glad you made a beautiful family of your own but I remember your mum and Patrick so well from our Gorbals days. You rest easy Paul you've left the world a beautiful legacy in your kids and grandchild. I'm sorry I won't be at your final goodbye but you and your lovely family will be in my prayers I promise you that. Sleep well auld pal, peace at last.... Cumbie rule 🙏
Tracy wrote
7th Aug 2020
Sending my love to you all Paul was some character funny he also had a heart of gold would help anybody out RIP my friend it was pleasure knowing you xx Thinking of you maxine Tasha Jodie and Robert and wee toot he always look down on use xx
Stephanie wrote
7th Aug 2020
Such a sad time for you all, my thoughts are with each and everyone of you at this time. R.I.P Paul fly high and may you have one of the best beds up there. Love too you all! Xxxx
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